Feb 27, 2011

A woman’s heart is like the ocean. Rough on the surface, but beautiful underneath.

Although I’m still wondering how is our first kiss going to be but I’m sure it’s going to be a real nice feel considering the feelings I have for him. My feelings have mounted to a part where you just can’t see the consequences that would come along anymore. And now he is coming back in less than a week.

LESS THAN A WEEK!

Do you understand what less than a week means? It means, you can count it with your fingers! Yes! That short compared to the months I have waited.

I’m not sure how many of ‘my boyfriend’ going to come up in the future, and I’d probably will confuse you readers with one after another but I’ll try to keep this one for long.

I'm not a player, I just know what I want. I want an understanding matured relationship, but full with excitement. I want a guy that sees my admirers not as a trophy, nor as a threat. I want it to be for nothing.

I’m not really one with looks nor that the guys are all after me but I do have my own criteria’s that fits in certain guys check list. But that shouldn’t be a reason for jealousy, or proud. In fact, it should be just for nothing. It should be just for a small talk topic or maybe, a reason to create the sparks back into its places. Period.

Until now, I still strongly believe that both girls and guys are not complicated. I admit that I like to make something big sometimes, (but not complicated) especially when I got hurt. For example, when my guy is ignoring me, I’d talk to other guy just to create a fact that I was talking to other guy. But that doesn’t mean that I want to leave him for the other guy, I just want attention and I’m not going to lie for it.

It takes understanding to view it as attention-seeking attempt.

Yes, relationship can be pretty confusing sometimes since we can’t read minds and we have watched too many movies, we would relate any situations into a general conclusion. But don't you think that those arguments deserved an individual conclusion based on the originality of the issue?

My recipe to a perfect relationship is not to fight for your current one. If it’s not working then it’s not going to work. Period. So what if it has been there for seven years? Happiness is what matters.

I know some girls that says, “we’ve been together for five years, how can I stop now and see those five years turn into a waste?”.

Know what I say?

Why stay longer and waste even more? Happiness is what matters. Stay when you’re happy, leave when you’re not. 

I know it’s hard to process but once you’ve reached to a stage where you know how to be selfish. Where you know how to listen to what you really want by not putting alongside what others wants from you. It’ll be easier for you to find someone that can make you really happy.

Some says, my method will lead me to nowhere and I’ll be a spinster forever. But let me ask you, what could be even worst than a miserable marriage? 

Confidence is your biggest asset.
Don't let the relationship that used to give you happiness eat them day by day.
Leave while you can.

If you're single and rejected, I'm not going to say the way how can you find it in magazine: The guys don't deserve you or you deserve someone better.

No. You don't deserve anyone. You have flaws that's why you're rejected but that shouldn't be the reason for you to lose all your confidence.

Challenge all the losers who have rejected you, they're probably right at this point but give yourself a year and revamp the whole new you while still being yourself.

So what if you're a drama queen, stay that way. Others may find you attractive. Don't ever change yourself to someone you're not because honestly, you'll look like a clown who's trying to make it big. If you like to talk, keep on talking. If you like to keep quite, stay silent.

There's always someone for somebody. But if you're too horny to love, you know there's always someone who deserve all the love that you want to give away.

You, yourself.

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